Myths vs. facts about the priesthood
By Fr. Warren Sazama, SJ
Director of Vocations - Wisconsin Province
Note: This article originally appeared in Callings, our Province vocations newsletter.
Drawing on reliable national survey
samples of priests, sociologist Fr.
Andrew Greeley, Ph.D., has written
a book that punctures a lot of the popular,
unflattering myths about the Catholic
priesthood in the United States.
Titled Priests: A Calling In Crisis
(The (The University of Chicago Press, 2004), I think it
is worth passing along some of the findings it
discusses. They help shed a clearer light on a
very timely issue for all Catholics – in fact, for
all people interested in overcoming prejudice
– and especially for those who are themselves
considering a possible priestly vocation.
Much of what has been publicized in the media
about Catholic priests is at crosscurrents
with my own experiences of priests I know – Jesuits, other religious order priests, and
diocesan priests included. Greeley shows
how many of the prominent public voices
commenting about Catholic priests in the
media have based their statements not on fact,
but on popular misconceptions, personal bias,
and skewed data (for example, anecdotal or
very unrepresentative samples such as priests
in treatment).
He, on the other hand, taps into the actual
life experiences of a broad range of real, live
priests. Based on reliable sociological data,
Greeley arrives at a number of conclusions that
are consistent with my positive experiences
of most priests. At the same time, he also
addresses a number of legitimate concerns. I
offer here a mix of a half dozen of his findings
which I believe will give you a more accurate
picture of American Catholic priests today.
- Priests are among the happiest men in the
world. They say they would become priests
again, and life in the priesthood is better than
they expected. They score higher in these
areas than married Protestant clergy.
- The data indicate that priests, on average,
are as mature and as capable of the intimacy
of warm, deep friendships as married laymen.
Moreover, priests are more likely to be
satisfied with their work and their lives than
are married Protestant clergy.
- Priests stay in the priesthood and are
happy in ministry because they like their work
and doing the things involved with priestly
life. They tend to be religious altruists, not
just social workers or social activists. While
it is difficult for many people today to believe
a man can be a happy, fulfilled, and mature
human being without a female partner,
celibate priests prove that this is not only
possible but can also be a very rewarding
lifestyle. Of course, those of us who are happy,
celibate priests knew this all along.
- Most priests are celibate heterosexuals.
Approximately one out of six priests is
homosexual. Moreover, the vast majority of
both hetero- and homosexual priests value
their celibate commitment and live it faithfully.
- However, not all of what Greeley found in
his examination of the research data about
priests is flattering. Obviously not all is perfect
about American priests and there is definitely
room for growth. On the downside, Greeley’s
examination of the research indicates that too
many priests can be insensitive to the laity and
out of touch with the feelings and perceptions
about their job performance as priests. For
example, many Catholic laypeople report
dissatisfaction with poor homilies, liturgies,
and sub-par performances in pastoral
counseling and working with young people.
Moreover, Greeley believes that the walls of
the clerical culture impede communication
between priests and laypeople. While the
brotherly bonds and friendships that priests
experience among themselves are good,
priests need to reach out, listen better to
laypeople, and respond more sensitively to
their perceptions, feelings, and concerns.
- Another negative finding in Greeley’s
examination of the research data is that
priests are generally poor at inviting young,
Catholic men to consider the priesthood. Nine
out of 10 respondents who expressed some
interest in the priesthood had never been
approached by a priest on the subject. Greeley
reflects that if only a small proportion of those
young men had become priests, there would
be no shortage of priests today. He also raises
an interesting question: if priests are as happy
and satisfied in the priesthood as the research
data shows them to be, why are they not more
actively encouraging vocations? Could it be
because they unwittingly buy into the popular
negative misconceptions of their calling?
All this depicts a view that shows Catholic
priests in America are neither the superheroes
of bygone myths when people tended to
put them on pedestals, nor the villains that
unfortunately much of the popular media
broadly paints them as today. Rather they are
generally altruistic men who are as mature as
their lay married counterparts and who need
to be more sensitive and listen better.
As I mentioned at the beginning of this
column, Greeley’s findings are very consistent
with my experiences of my brother priests.
In general, I find that most Catholic priests
I know are good, happy, caring men. As I
observe my experience of my married, lay
friends and my brother priests, I see both
groups having many wonderful qualities as
well as limitations.
When I look at fellow priests, I see some true
saints – generous, self-sacrificing, loving,
holy men who inspire me. Certainly some are
warmer and more pleasant than others and
some are better at what they do, which is true
in every walk of life. But by and large, most
are good people who are neither obvious
saints nor outrageous sinners. They do much
good in the world in often ordinary ways. They
have simultaneous generous qualities and
blind spots.
They are, in a word, human. |