10
Reasons to be a Religious or Priest Today
By Fr. Warren Sazama, SJ
Vocations Director
Note: This article originally appeared in Callings,
our Province vocations newsletter.
I feel sad when people hear I’m a vocation director
and say, “That must be a tough sell.” They are
surprised when I tell them that it’s not as tough as
they might think and that many quality people are expressing
interest in joining religious communities and diocesan seminaries.
And it’s really not a sell at all. It’s a matter
of helping them hear more clearly how God is calling them.
When people ask how it’s going, I tell them while
we’re not getting the same numbers of entrants as in
the ’50s and ’60s, we’re doing significantly
better than in the ’90s. The Jesuits, for example, started
this year with 105 first- and second-year novices in the U.S.
and Canada – 58 this year and 56 last. Our Jesuit novitiate
in St. Paul, Minnesota is literally overflowing. We had to
rent space in a nearby apartment building to accommodate everyone.
This past year had the largest entrance class in the U.S.
and Canada in 10 years, with the previous year having been
the second largest. The foreseeable future appears bright.
So why, especially in light of recent turmoil in the Church,
are healthy, young adults with good options choosing religious
life and priesthood in significant numbers? And why might
you consider this option? In the tradition of David Letterman,
though not with his wit, let me give you 10 reasons to become
a religious or priest today.
1) Because you want to and feel called to be a religious
or priest. This is the inescapable main reason. Although the
call is not always loud and clear, the best sign that God
is calling you to be a religious or priest is that you feel
a desire to do so. Questions arise: What way of life will
make you most alive and happy? What do you want to do with
your life? Early on, God might only be calling you to consider
the possibility, which, if nurtured, could develop into a
deep desire. Is the thought of being a religious or priest
attractive to you? Do you feel drawn to consider it? Do you
feel happy and peaceful when imagining yourself as a religious
or priest? These are all initial signs that God might be calling
you.
2) Because being a religious or priest is the best way for
you to love. The three main ways of loving in the Church are
(1) marriage (for the majority of people), (2) single lay
life, and (3) religious life or priesthood. While marriage
is a very particular way of loving one family, religious life
and priesthood are ways of celibately loving in a more universal
way. For some people, the thought of focusing their loving,
generative energy on one specific family feels too limiting.
They feel called to love more expansively, to be free to touch
many people’s lives. If being a religious or priest
is the best way for you to share your love with the world,
I hope and pray you follow that call. If there’s a better
way for you to love, do it.
3) Because being a religious or priest is the best way for
you to share your gifts in service and make the world a better
place. We all have special God-given gifts and talents. What
is the best way for you, given your temperament, personality,
and spirituality, to share your unique gifts in service? If
you believe that you can make your best contribution to the
world as a religious or priest, that is a sign that God might
be calling you.
4) Because you can make a tremendous, unparalleled difference
in thousands of people’s lives for the rest of your
life. As a Jesuit for 40 years and a priest for 27, the Lord
has been able to use me to touch thousands of lives, in often-profound
ways. For example, as vocation director, I’m privileged
to mentor hundreds of men and women, helping them figure out
what God is calling them to do with their lives. I’m
also honored to help many college students each year grow
closer to God in a renewed prayer life on Busy Student Retreats
and in spiritual direction. As a priest, I have had the opportunity
to help people go through major life passages such as marriage,
birth, and dying in the context of faith and the Church’s
rich rituals and forgive sins in the name of Christ. I can’t
imagine another way of life in which I could have as profound
an impact on the lives of so many people.
5) Because being a religious or priest is an extremely joyful,
fulfilling, satisfying way of life. What could be better or
more satisfying and more joyful than the opportunity to be
God’s instrument in helping people come closer to God
and grow in their faith? Moreover, as a member of a religious
community, I have lifelong brothers, friends, and companions
with whom to share life, ministry, and my religious calling.
As a Jesuit, I have been blessed with the profound heritage
of Ignatian spirituality which has greatly enriched my own
life and given me so much to share with others seeking to
enrich their lives. I cannot imagine a richer, more satisfying,
happier, more meaningful life.
6) Because the life of a religious or priest is completely
structured toward union with God and service of others. Think
about it. What other way of life is entirely set up to help
you grow closer to God and serve your neighbor? I honestly
can’t think of one. As a religious, the vows of poverty,
chastity, and obedience free you to go wherever you can be
of most service without considering anything else. You don’t
have to say no to an opportunity to serve because the salary
is too low to support you and your family or because it doesn’t
fit in with your spouse’s or children’s needs
and plans. You have access to your community’s or diocese’s
resources to prepare yourself for the ministry you’re
called to. I look at my married friends, and while many of
them are admirably holy, my lifestyle offers me far more structures,
time, and opportunities to develop my faith and prayer life.
There is simply no other lifestyle I know of that comes close
to offering as many wide-ranging and deep ways of fostering
spiritual growth, union with God, and unrestricted opportunities
for service.
7) Because must not there be voices to speak of the things
of God in the world? As a very young man, I attended the First
Mass of a newly ordained priest. I remember vividly how simply,
humbly, and honestly he questioned how he or anyone else could
ever presume to be a public man or woman of God? And his humble,
honest answer to that penetrating question was, “Must
not some among us speak of the things of God? If not those
of us who, though unworthy, feel so called, then who?”
His comments struck a deep chord within me and seemed profoundly
true. I thought, “While none of us is worthy and can
presume to do this unless called by God, where would we be
if no one responded.” The mystery of the Incarnation
is that God depends on weak human beings like us to do His
work in the world. We are the hands, mouth, and feet of Christ.
8) Because the world needs witnesses to transcendent values.
While this reason is closely related to the previous one,
it has a different emphasis. It’s true that religious
and priests speak of the things of God in a unique way and
with a unique authority (“Sister – or Brother
or Father – said, …”). However, their entire
lives – their vows, their sacrifices, their dedication
to God and neighbor in an obvious and public way – if
lived authentically, point to the absolutely central place
of God in our human existence far beyond what words alone
could ever express. If not for God, why do all this?
9) Because the Church and world are immeasurably richer with
the presence of religious (and the Church absolutely depends
on priests for her sacramental life). While the Church and
world could go on without the presence of religious, I believe
both would be much poorer without them. This is perhaps the
hardest point to make, because you can’t miss something
you haven’t experienced, and, unfortunately, all too
many young people today have not had the opportunity to personally
know women and men members of religious communities. Fortunately
I have, starting with the School Sisters of St. Francis who
taught me in grade school and whom I also knew intimately
through my aunt, Sr. Margaret Joseph Goetz, SSSF; through
my Jesuit teachers in high school; and later many wonderful
religious women and men colleagues and friends. There’s
something intangibly special and incredibly uplifting about
women and men who have given their lives to God and service
in this radical way. There’s an old religious word called
“edify.” To edify (as in ‘edifice’)
means to ‘build up.’ Good women and men religious
edify us – build us up.
10) Because at this time the need for religious and priests
has never been greater or the motivation more pure. Amid the
clergy scandals that filled the media in 2002, one outstanding
young man told me that this is a great time to become a religious
and a priest. When I asked him why, he said that at a time
like this his motives had to be pure. Given all of the negative
publicity and even ridicule, what could motivate him other
than pure motives such as the love of God, a sense of God’s
call, wanting to be of service, and his perception of the
obvious need for good people to step forward at this time?